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I have been planning on posting our Christmas dinner which I prepared but my timing was always off. Only now that I got the chance so I’ll try to at least post the first two courses on our little menu that evening.

Christmas dinner for me and my little family - that’ll be my husband, my dad in law and I - is important. It has always been just the 3 of us every year so dinner has to be interesting that’s why I always try my best to come up with a special menu each year. This year I consulted Gordon Ramsay’s Secret Cookbook for the first course which was

LANGOUSTINE COCKTAIL , you may find the recipe HERE

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and for the second course, I made…

PRAWN CROUSTADE recipe you will find HERE

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my husband had to laugh because i wasn’t only a cook but our photographer as well during special dinners like this. But I don’t mind. I love doing both, cooking and taking photos.

well, this is a short entry….MAY YOU ALL HAVE A FINE WEEKEND…GOD BLESS!!

maybe it’s time to let go…

Tomorrow I will be bringing our almost 8 years old ferret to the vet. Every night we hear him ‘ crying’ in his sleep, like he is in pain. My husband and I have already discussed about letting the vet put him to sleep as our main concern is that we don’t want him suffering from any pain , if there is any. It’s rather difficult to know what to do at this stage. Two years ago we had to take a painful decision of letting Danielle be put to sleep (a female ferret) because of cancer. I, and I know my husband too, do not want to go through that pain again. We love our pets.

Jacob is still eating, drinking, but acting confuse most of the time, no longer using the toilet properly, has weak hind legs and one eye is blind, due to cataract.

Just thinking about what would happen to Jacob makes me want to cry.

For a better future

Couples, like myself and my husband who do not have children are sometimes left with a question by people we know, who will take care of you when you grow old? At least if you have children, they can look after you. Now, is that the main reason why people opt to have children? I don’t think so. It isn’t the children’s responsibility to take care of their parents in their old days. Good if they do but if they do not, well, that why you have nursing homes these days.

People need not worry about their future, the ripe age future, because with bettercaring.com, valuable informations are provided about taking care of people with special needs through home cares, all the home care assistance that are needed . Growing old need not be a burden to the family if its planned at an early stage. So don’t forget to check it out for more information. It’s better to be prepared than sorry.

This wont stop me!

I’m talking about this flu, running nose, heavy head and nasty cough. All these I am experiencing right now but I wont let these stop me from finally putting up our CHRISTMAS TREE! Todays. yes, t o d a y!

I find it a bit too late to put up a tree, because back in the Philippines, I was so used to seeing them beginning of November in our home. I always get excited when the tree was up, because in a child’s mind that would mean presents in a few weeks time.

But now I am older and living in The Netherlands, it has somehow ‘dampen’ the Christmas festivities. The dutch, most of them do not put up a tree and even do not celebrate the 25th of December but rather their Sinterklaas which is 5th of December. Though Christmas isn’t just about the decors and stuff, still it could help me, being alone in this country away from my Filipino family, feel ‘home’.

But a true blooded Filipina that I am, I am having that tree, by hook or by crook, sick or not today…by the evening, it should be lighting our living room.

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What or Who is Sinterklaas?

The Feast of Sinterklaas, or St. Nicholas, is an annual event which has been uniquely Dutch and Flemish for centuries. St. Nicholas’ Feast Day, December 6th, is observed in most Roman Catholic countries primarily as a feast for small children. But it is only in the Low Countries - especially in the Netherlands - that the eve of his feast day (December 5th) is celebrated nationwide by young and old, christian and non-christian, and without any religious overtones.
Although Sinterklaas is always portrayed in the vestments of the bishop he once was, his status as a canonized saint has had little to do with the way the Dutch think of him. Rather, he is a kind of benevolent old man, whose feast day is observed by exchanging gifts and making good-natured fun of each other. It so happens that the legend of St. Nicholas is based on historical fact. He did actually exist. He lived from 271 A.D. to December 6th, 342 or 343. His 4th century tomb in the town of Myra, near the city of Anatolia in present-day Turkey, has even been dug up by archaeologists.

This is his story:
Born of a wealthy family, Nicholas was brought up as a devout Christian. When his parents died of an epidemic, he distributed his wealth among the poor and became a priest.
Later he became Archbishop of Myra, and it is from here that the fame of his good deeds began to spread across the Mediterranean. Desperate sailors who called upon the Good Bishop to calm stormy seas were heard; prison walls crumbled when victims of persecution prayed to him. He saved young children from the butcher’s knife and dropped dowries into the shoes of penniless maidens. Over time, St. Nicholas became the patron saint of sailors and merchants, and especially of children. After his death, the cult of St. Nicholas spread rapidly via southern Italy throughout the rest of the Mediterranean and eventually to coastal towns along the Atlantic and the North Sea. In the 12th and 13th centuries, Holland built no fewer than 23 churches dedicated to St. Nicholas, many of which are still standing. Amsterdam adopted St. Nicholas as its patron saint, and Rome decreed that December 6th, the anniversary of his death, should be his official Feast Day.
St. Nicholas’ strong influence in the Low Countries - an area heavily engaged in trade and navigation - was primarily due to his role as patron of sailors and merchants.
However, his fame as protector of children soon took precedence.
In the 14th century, choir boys of St. Nicholas churches were given some money and the day off on December 6th.
Somewhat later, the pupils of convent schools would be rewarded or punished by a monk dressed up as the Good Bishop, with his long white beard, his red mantle and mitre (bishop’s hat) and his golden crosier (bishop’s staff) - just as he is still presented today.

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